I had been put in the blessed condition in which I can no longer physically move below my shoulders 10 years ago in a diving accident. In the meantime I have learned, and am still learning, how to harness the power of the mind. We are all familiar with the feeling we get when we know somebody is staring at us. I have found that the focusing of intention, combined with love can be used as a sensual tool when you no longer can/want to use your hands. Now I actually prefer the sexual experience to be "hands-off"... the relm of energy and imagination is much more exciting. Besides, it is incredibly liberating to learn to achieve mental orgasms because they do not take very long to achieve, and can be repeated until utter exhaustion